It’s been a very busy month – and I noticed two things had gotten pushed back – my running and my writing. Every weekend I’d say to myself, “I want to go for a run today” or “I should update my blog”… And then life happens. Work obligations, holidays, bad weather, family needs, or just being tired and unmotivated. Next thing you know, it is the 3rd week of April, and I’ve only gone running twice this month.
I tell people every day they need to be more active. Some take it to heart, others ignore it, but I suspect most end up where I’ve been this month – I know I should do it, but unable to turn that knowledge into action. This weekend was particularly busy, and I told myself yesterday that I should run this morning. In psychology, this is known as the Prochaska Model of Transtheorectical Change.
As has been the pattern lately, I slept a little later than I planned. Then I got my running stuff together. I had coffee (even before a run, yes) to finish waking up, and then got a distracted by email and tidying up the things I didn’t finish last night. Thinking about the things I wanted to do today, I started to convince myself I didn’t have time to run. Just like last weekend.
In my mind I made excuses about putting my obligations first, and felt myself becoming resentful of the things in my way. Rationalization is very easy, and I began to accept that another day would go by without a run. Recognizing that 9am really wasn’t too late in the day to run, I said to myself – “It is important for me to run today.” That change got me to open Runkeeper and start Spotify run (Funk n Soul playlist) on my phone and get outside!
That small change in my mental dialogue (a fancy way of saying talking to myself) made the difference. It changed running from something I’d like to do, something optional, to something required – as important as the other obligations I was using as an excuse to not run. That was the key for me to find the link between motivation and action. Now to see if I can use that to help my patients do the same!
The path to wellness begins with a proper diagnosis