I am asking readers to tell me what you want. Not in general, but at a health or wellness talk. A few weeks ago I was asked to speak at a wellness seminar given at a company for its employees about heart health. The talk was well received, and we had a good discussion after my presentation.
What struck me was how willing people were, in a room full of co-workers, to ask questions about their personal health. In the office, we have safeguards to protect privacy at check-in, in the waiting room and at check out. Yet in this conference room, with people they know listening, I was told about cholesterol results and other tests, treatments they were given, etc. Granted, we were talking about heart disease, which may not seem as socially or professionally awkward as some other topics, but it still surprised me.
It also made me wonder – what did they want? My professional interpretation and opinion of their situation, or validation that the choices they had made in their own care were “good choices”?
I did my best based on the information people gave me to address their concerns, while encouraging them to speak to their doctors. Some had questions understanding what they were treating or how to interpret their results. Others had decided to try a different therapy (often homeopathic) than what their doctor recommended and wanted my approval – so the answer to my initial question is “both”.
I found it to be a little uncomfortable being asked to approve someone’s decisions with limited information, especially if I didn’t “approve.” However, the talk and Q&A are for the attendees, not me, so I did my best to give a recommendation and encourage discussion between the person and their doctor.
My question to you – if you went to a talk like this what would you prefer? A general Q&A or time at the end to make a mini-appointment to discuss your questions one on one with the speaker? Tell me what you want!
The path to wellness begins with a proper diagnosis